Memorable Moments from Summer

Tukios Websites • July 5, 2008

On July 22, 2017 the William “Sonny” Simon Post 8216 dedicated the Middleton Community Veterans Tribute to the people of Middleton, Wisconsin.

Reprinted: MIDDLETON (WKOW) — The Middleton community has a new place to honor our local veterans. VFW Post 8216 unveiled the new Middleton Community Veterans’ Tribute Saturday morning at Lakeview Park. The memorial was built as a thank you to those who have served our country. Service members say it’s the perfect place to quietly honor our local heroes. “This is a moving tribute for those who already have a deep connection to the sacrifices of military service and for them this is a place of solitude, quiet reflection, a place they can be alone with their thoughts,” says Lt. John Hall, with the U.S. Army Reserve. You can buy a brick to pay tribute to a service member and help pay for the memorial. http://middletoncommunityveteranstribute.org/index.html

Too Little Too Late - A Memorial Gone Wrong

By Darlene Kohn • December 6, 2024
Yesterday, Jane was on duty as a tour guide at a lovely little pre-revolutionary war church in rural Virginia. It was late in the afternoon when a youngish woman wearing shorts and a Cubs ball hat stepped into the visitor’s center looking lost. Thinking that she might need directions, Jane quietly approached to offer her assistance. The seemingly lost young lady said she just wanted to go in the church.

Grief Is Individual

By Darlene Kohn • December 6, 2024
Let’s talk about the stages of grief. There is denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. I studied them in nursing school, reviewed them when I got divorced and generally found them to be a pretty accurate and helpful bit of knowledge. And then, a family member died. Stages?

How Should I Prepare for My Funeral Preplanning Meeting?

By Darlene Kohn • December 6, 2024
First, relax. Talking about your funeral plans might make you a little uncomfortable at first but making a plan doesn’t mean you will be using it anytime soon. Your funeral director or advance planner will guide you through the process. Most people get very comfortable in just a few minutes.

It's Not Really a Funeral Plan If It's Not at the Funeral Home

By Darlene Kohn • December 6, 2024
Can I just say that funerals stick in the mind of a loved one years after a death? It’s important that you get it right. Please don’t put your wishes in the drawer with the rest of your files. Oh, and that thing where you tell the kids what you want. That’s not the best either.

Get Your Family Involved in Funeral Planning

By Darlene Kohn • June 21, 2024
When death is near or has just occurred, there are so many things to do and yet there is nothing you can do. You feel helpless. You can’t make the person well or bring them back. But you know you will, very soon, need to make many decisions about the service, the final resting place, the music, food, flowers, donations, clothing and much more. Your mind is racing and oddly enough, at the same time, at a complete standstill. On one hand it feels like it is too soon to do anything. You’re just not ready. But at the same time, you feel the weight of all that is coming.

Who Will Take Care of My Funeral Plans?

By Darlene Kohn • June 21, 2024
It is not uncommon for people to ask themselves, “Since I never had any children, who will take care of my funeral plans?” That is all the more reason to preplan your own funeral!

Preplanning Your Funeral in Your 60’s

By Darlene Kohn • June 10, 2024
According to a National Funeral Directors Association survey, more than half (62.5%) of us expect to participate in making our own funeral arrangements. And yet, less than a quarter of us have actually acted on that impulse. Not really so surprising since making funeral arrangements can literally be the very last thing we do. We can put it off right up to the end!

Should I Go To the Funeral?

By Darlene Kohn • June 10, 2024
Why should you attend a funeral? The presence of family and friends at the funeral is appreciated. We gather to acknowledge a life that was lived. We gather to comfort those for whom life has just been forever changed by the death of someone they loved.

Thinking About Skipping the Funeral?

By Darlene Kohn • June 10, 2024
Are you considering going to a funeral? Will you be a guest or, are you the survivor in charge and deciding if there will even be a funeral? Either way, before you just skip the funeral perhaps you should consider how elephants behave when one of their species dies. Perhaps we have something to learn from Dumbo.

Moving After a Spouse Dies?

By Darlene Kohn • June 10, 2024
One of the realities of losing a spouse or a parent is the impact that event has on living arrangements. Are we living in the “right” place?
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