Marzo Bliss

Madison - Marzo Porter Bliss led a life characterized by an abundance of love. He possessed an unassuming but unshakeable commitment to his family and the community that surrounded him, and his presence was an abiding comfort to those around him. We had 98 years of Marzo; we wish we had more. He passed away peacefully on June 30, 2016.

Born downtown in 1918 to Hugh and Erminie Bliss, Marzo was Madisonian to his core. The family had five children; the oldest named Hugh, followed by Anita, then Marzo, his younger sister Jean, and the youngest, Clint. During the Great Depression, his family rented out their apartment in the city, and stayed in a cottage on a hill above Lake Waubesa. The children slept on the porch; Erminie draped a canvas tarp over them to keep the snow off when autumn began to turn. They hitchhiked to school because the family car couldn't make it all the way in.

He attended West High, where he met the love of his life, Eliza Caswell, and they both enrolled at the University of Wisconsin. Eliza had a lot of pluck, and she asked him to marry her on Bascom hill. They had their wedding on graduation day 1939; they'd go on to enjoy 60 years of life together.

Marzo was drafted into the army the year he was married. He was a sergeant in the Army, and constructed Bailey Bridges throughout France: these were portable truss bridges that allowed tanks to cross rivers. It was a dangerous job, and one that he didn't talk much about for a long time. When the war ended in 1945, he was offered a promotion to stay in Europe, but he was desperate to return home to Eliza, who had given birth to his first child Merry while he was away.

Marzo and Eliza had three more children: David, Carol, and John. The Blisses lived in a postwar house in the Westmorland neighborhood, with a little garden and a shop in the basement. They attended the First Congregational Church, and sang in the choir. For 35 years Marzo worked for an upscale menswear store, selling suits to the likes of Frank Lloyd Wright and Oscar Mayer, until retiring in 1983, after which he didn't do much dressing up.

Marzo and Eliza had a busy retirement. There were years and years of companionship, and Scrabble after lunch, in their back room where they could watch birds at the feeder. They traveled, visited children and grandchildren, camped, rode bikes in France, and hosted endless Christmas dinners.

What they did more than anything else, however, was volunteer: with Volunteers in Mission and Habitat for Humanity. Beginning in 1985, Marzo devoted countless hours to building houses with Habitat for Humanity. Marzo pounded nails right to the end, helping to build over 200 homes: he was full of vigor and loved being useful. In recognition of his service, Habitat named a street after him, and he was invited by Jimmy Carter to participate in an international build in Thailand. Marzo declined the invitation, however, because, at 90 years of age, he "didn't want to slow the builders down."

Marzo led a wonderful life, and these details don't do him justice. He was a self-possessed and really funny man, who seemed to see things with an unusual clarity. When he was needed, he'd be there, patient and unfussy, quick-witted, gentle but unmistakably strong willed. There was a preternatural steadiness to him; he was an oasis of calm love.

He is survived by his sister Jean and brother Clint, his four children, ten grandchildren, and fourteen (and counting) great grandchildren. Though Marzo wasn't big on dispensing wisdom, he did seem to have it figured out. He gave us all of his love, and we will dearly miss him.

A Memorial Service will be held at 4:00 p.m. on Sunday, July 10, 2016 at First Congregational UCC, 1609 University Avenue, Madison.

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